Yes, I am always late. Always. My frequent statement is "my life runs 10 minutes behind" because if I arrive less than ten minutes late to something it is a bit of a miracle. This includes dinner plans, movies, concerts, and my job, for example. Yes, I cancel on her last minute all the time. Have a discussion with him and tell him that while you want him to play and be involved, it's not fair to the other people in the group to constantly cancel. The options are 1) let someone else play his character 2) have his character just not be there when he is absent or 3) have him leave the group. ADHD. We're an inclusive, disability-oriented peer support group for people with ADHD with an emphasis on science-backed information. Share your stories, struggles, and non-medication strategies. Nearly a million and a half users say they 'feel at home' and 'finally found a place where people understand them'. It's quite rude to cancel plans because something else you'd rather do comes up. Even with "sufficient" advance notice, you give the first person the distinct feeling that they're second-best. Plans can only legitimately be canceled (unilaterally) for emergency, non-negotiable, unpleasant circumstances, like a funeral or a work function. We had a small party with just my parents and siblings at a small venue planned. Everything paid for, decorations bought, giant cake ordered, cute dress for her, etc. We ended up celebrating at home, just the three of us while wearing masks to try to prevent her from getting it and both feeling miserable. That was last Saturday, the 17th. Cancel for any reason: More Details. Allianz Travel Insurance offers a range of highly rated travel insurance plans, some of which let you get back up to 80% of the full cost of prepaid travel Because it is annoying, especially if done at the last minute. You put so much effort into preparing yourself emotionally for that plan, and those people cancel it. It's because you wasted psychological energy. H-OAP. • 3 yr. ago. Sometimes people have other things to do or they don't feel like going out. He can make it up to you and it may end up being a better date. If you don't really care much about him, then forget him and move on. It really all depends on how much you like him/where you want things to go. But I personally don't think him cancelling the date with couple hours notice is a deal breaker. 8. jzZyy.